How to Talk about Politics Without Blowing a Gasket

The political rhetoric has been particularly heated lately, as Congress and the President grapple over how to handle the mounting deficit and the nation’s economy.

And as the rhetoric among politicians has become more heated, it seems like many of us in grassroots America also are mirroring some of that partisan bickering.

We have seen people arguing about politics at Little League, in church and in the community.

And while we certainly think that political discussions are important and an essential part of living in a democracy, it also seems wise to stop and think about how we can have such conversations in ways that are civil.

Some tips for talking about politics in peaceful ways:

• Don’t use inflammatory or insulting language. Present your points in a calm, clear manner and do so without excessive emotion or language that is designed to incite instead of educate. And of course, never, ever yell.
• Try your best to see other perspectives. One problem in society today is that people are increasingly getting their news and other information from partisan sources. Even our two main news networks, Fox and CNN, seem to be oriented toward specific political parties. Whenever possible, try to get information from neutral sources. Also, be open to reading opinion pieces and other material that represents perspectives different from your own.
• Find common ground. Remember that the person you are arguing with probably has the same goals in mind that you do. Most of us, for example, can agree that the middle class is declining in America and that this is a problem that needs to be addressed. We may disagree about how to do it, but all of us, for the most part, want to build a stronger, more prosperous America.
• Stick to the facts. Whenever possible, talk about facts – and know that the facts that you are presenting are, indeed, accurate, so that you are not simply spreading misinformation. Do not resort to name-calling of parties or politicians. And certainly never insult the person in front of you.
• Remember that political debate is not a reflection of intellect. There are smart Republicans. And smart Democrats. Intelligent Tea Partiers and equally intelligent Libertarians. We just see things differently.
• Don’t be afraid to admit when you are wrong. Sometimes, in the course of a debate, we may learn something. This does not mean that we are intellectually weak. It means that we are open to new ideas and to growing. This, ultimately, should be a goal of political debate and discourse.

By following these tips, our hope is that you can engage in increasingly meaningful political discourse about issues that matter in your community, your state, your nation and beyond.

 Now, if we could just get the politicians to follow our lead …..